Important Tips and Pointers for Your First Date

While dating is essential for meeting new people and socializing, it can be quite daunting when it is done for the first time. When on your first date, there are several factors that you should follow, in order to ensure that there is no mess up; especially if you are looking for a long term relationship with the individual you are dating. Following are some important tips that you should consider when dating for the first time.

Location of your first date is extremely important, especially considering that you have gone through some ardor before gaining this opportunity. Most people believe that going to the movies is an excellent way to begin your dating life. However, what most people do not realize is that when at the movies, you are not giving each other the requisite quality time to get to know each other. Hence, instead of a movie, you should opt for coffee or lunch, where you get ample time to talk to each other. Alternatively, you could choose for something more adventurous but be sure that you do not go overboard when choosing adventurous locations.

It is extremely important that you talk to each other in detail during your first date. Despite the previous courting etc, it is possible that you are not really aware of your likes, dislikes, preferences etc. and hence it is important to discuss these things, when you meet for the first time. Additionally, such discussions are great ways to break the ice between two individuals, who might otherwise find it awkward to be with each other, especially the first time.

Finally, when on your first date, make sure you listen as much as you talk. Make sure you keep the entire dating experience casual and friendly. It is important that you feel comfortable with each other before you proceed to the next stage.

What to Do on a First Date

Dating, for single women, can be a bit harrowing. This is especially true for first dates for a single person. If you’re nervous about going out with a new person, the points below will help.

Decide to meet in a public place. It is best to meet for a coffee, drinks or a lunch first, rather than planning a whole movie and dinner thing. That way, if you feel that it isn’t going anywhere, you can cut it short with a polite thank you, rather than drawing the date out the whole evening. Plus, if you go for a movie, you’ll spend the majority of you time looking at the screen instead of getting to know each other. Dress well, but don’t show a lot of skin – it’s possible that you’ll send out the wrong kind of signals. If you decide to meet for drinks, stick to your limit.

Don’t get drunk – for obvious reasons. Listen to his conversation and find out whether your likes and interests match. However, don’t try to make them match. Be honest about who you are, you do not have to pretend to be something you’re not. If you do, it will come back to haunt you later. It is a first date, so don’t extend it for too long. When the check comes, offer to pay, or at least insist on splitting the tab. A lot of single men out there will appreciate it and it has the added bonus of not making you feel indebted. Even if you had a great time, do not make plans to meet again that very day. Go home and sleep over it before accepting a second date.

Finally, if you met this single person through a mutual friend, it’s pretty sure they’ll ask how it went. Be neutral. Don’t gush, and, even if it was a disaster, do not crib about it. You can be sure it’ll get back to your date.