fredag den 5. august 2011

Science of Dating



Dating is not just about being friendly with another person of the opposite or the same sex. It is not just about socialising with people, watching movies or having dinners together. It has a science behind it and understanding of the psychology of dating is essential to find an apt and suitable match through dating. Understanding the psychology of dating helps in time saving and money saving as you would not have to waste resources on blind dates or unsuccessful relationships. Serious dating can result in finding ideal match for you.

Dating through internet has been gaining great importance; therefore it becomes necessary to understand the psychology of the person on the other side of the chat window. It is important to understand that you cannot force anyone into chatting. Therefore if you do not get ample hints from the other side, then understand that he/she is not interested any further. However, if you are really interested in some person and due to some reason chatting has stopped, it is not wrong to re-initiate chatting in such cases. You should only ask for first meeting after a comfortable rapport has been built been the two of you.

After the first meet is fixed, the psychology of other person can be understood through eye contact. Try to be very observant of your date in the first meet. Eyes speak a lot about the person. If the person seems happy and smiles then he/she is willing to carry the dating further. Also body language becomes very important when dating is done. More than 60% of dating in most cases is non-verbal. Therefore, right gestures and right bodily movements make known if the other person in interested or not. Nervousness is clearly visible in the body gestures. Make sure you try to make your dating match comfortable, if he/she seems nervous.

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