Relationships are very important for us; half of our efforts go into sustaining the connection in the first place. So if we are unable to make the most of our relationships then what is the point?
A person, who satisfies your list of comparable qualities and harmonizes your nature in all ways and manner possible, be it mentally, physically or spiritually is called a compatible match. Their views and interests, ambitions and personalities match those of yours, forming an excellent partnership between both of you.
There are many things in a relationship which determine whether you and your partner are a compatible match. Even if you have a strong sense of attraction to an individual, it will never mean that they are compatible with you. The presence of compatibility in the relationship determines how you both together solve issues in your relation.
There are few fundamental things which would help you find out if your match is compatible or not. The ambitions, intimacy, energy, interests, hygiene and finally spiritual harmony which you both possess as individuals are the determining factors for establishing the compatibility.
When the compatibility is great between you two, you will just know it. You should understand that the harder you work to make a relationship satisfying; the overall compatibility is at worse. We think that compatibility is somewhat based on what we make of it, but actually compatibility is something that two people naturally have between themselves. It is not something to achieve.
It cannot be manipulated, it is just present.
We can always work to improve our relationships but we cannot make our match compatible. It is or it is not. No amount of work can alter the equations. So, concentrate on understanding yourself. It will ease a lot of stress by clearing most of the illusions and expectations we have about ourselves, of others and from our relationships.